SEX ED

Buying a toy for someone else can feel like walking a very fine line.

On one side, it can be thoughtful, playful, and genuinely fun. On the other, it can feel awkward, intense, or accidentally send a message you did not mean to send.

January has a certain energy. The sun is shining, routines are loose, and suddenly everything feels a little more possible… including better sex. If 2025 felt a bit same-same in the pleasure department, consider this your official invitation to mix things up in 2026.

You’ve found something you like. It’s doing its job very well. Now comes the part that doesn’t get much hype, but makes a big difference in the long run.

Looking after your toys.

When people talk about self-care, it usually involves things like green smoothies, early nights, or remembering to drink more water. All important. All valid. All… a bit boring.

Bringing up toys with a partner can feel more nerve-wracking than it needs to be.

You might worry about hurting their feelings. You might worry about it being awkward. You might worry they’ll read way too much into it and suddenly think it means something big.

With absolutely zero reproductive function and existing exclusively for pleasure, the clitoris goes by many names. The Bean. The Pearl. The Tacoberry… the Clam-Hat… the Sugar Plum, the Love Bud, the Quimberry, the Peach Pit, the Cherry Chapstick, the Skittle, the Devil’s Doorbell… and – perhaps the most hilarious and visually descriptive of all – the Bald Man in a Pink Canoe.

So you’re curious. You’ve clicked around. Maybe you’ve added something to your cart and then immediately closed the tab like it might judge you.

First of all, welcome. You’re in good company.

Wondering if your fondness for stockings, or wax play, or whipped cream or spanking is more of a kink… or a fetish? This month in Ask a Sexpert, we examine the two often interchangeably-used terms, explore the difference between the two.

Ready to spice up your sex life? Whether you're single or in a relationship, we've got 200 sinful suggestions to help you get the ball rolling on your own Sex Bucket List! 

Forget balls-deep penetration. A new sexperience is trending – and it’s all about the pleasure that can be found at the shallow end of the sexual spectrum... whether you're looking to enhance your partnered sexcapades or you want to heighten your own solo sensations.

As the clock strikes midnight and we bid farewell to another year, it's time to toss aside the clichéd resolutions about hitting the gym or eating more kale. Why not spice things up a bit and make this year's resolutions a tad more... steamy? 

Summer is the season of scorching sun, endless beach days, and steamy romance. But, let's face it… sometimes the heat can turn your intimate moments into a hot and sweaty affair! Check out our ideas to help you cool down while enjoying your steamy sexcapades this summer.

Jingle bells, steamy nights, and a touch of spice! Christmas is around the corner, and it's the perfect time to add a dash of pleasure to the holiday season. If you're on the lookout for a gift that goes beyond the ordinary, look no further. We've curated Santa's list of naughty and nice adult toys for her.

Tis the season to be jolly, and what better way to spread the holiday cheer than with a gift that keeps on giving? This Christmas, think outside the gift-wrapped box and surprise your lover with the perfect present—adult toys for him, designed to add a dash of spice to the festive season.

Ooh, la la! Get ready to turn up the heat and dive into a world of passion, desire, and literary seduction with our top 12 erotic novels. Whether you're a seasoned reader of steamy tales or just dipping your toes into the sensuous sea of literature, these books are guaranteed to leave you hot under the collar...

Over half of the global population has, or at some stage has had, periods – yet many of us still think of period sex as taboo, or – worse – icky. Periods are NOT gross, and neither is period sex! In fact, beneath the crimson wave lies a sea of sensual benefits waiting to be explored...

Do you feel like your intimate adventures could use a little extra spark? Look no further, ladies, because G-spot vibes can add a swoon-worthy twist to your solo or partnered bedroom escapades! If you're curious about exploring uncharted pleasure territories, buckle up...

Masturbation is fun… but did you know your self-love sessions also offer a wide range of health benefits? Whether you’re paddling the pink canoe or wiggling the wacky weasel, you can now consider your solo shenanigans to be just as important for good health as hitting the gym and eating your greens!

Does monogamy feel like it’s just not the right fit for you? Curious about expanding your romantic and sexual horizons to include multiple playmates and partners? There are five elements to keep in mind when first exploring the Polyamory Playground. Let's dive in!

Have you ever wondered why there are so many great euphemisms for sex and masturbation? Think about all the phrases you use when you’re sharing XXX-rated stories with friends, or dropping hints to your playmate about what you want to do to them after dark.

If you've ever wondered about the tantalising world of whips and paddles, you're in for a treat. From understanding the basics and choosing your weapon, to exploring safe words and building trust, our beginner's guide will help you dive into the world of BDSM pleasure accessories.